When Jim plays basketball with Roy. Meanwhile, Pam seems to accept that she and Jim weren't meant to be and that their timing was never right, but is ecstatic when Jim bursts into the conference room during her talking head and asks her out on a date ("The Job"). The Office travels to Niagara Falls to celebrate Jim and Pam's wedding under strict orders not to mention Pam's pregnancy. Lets follow Jim and Pam, also known to fans as Jam or PBJ, through their complicated relationship at The Office. As a result of their new relationship, Jim and Pam are both more relaxed and incredibly happy all throughout the season, even taking pity on Dwight when his secret relationship with Angela comes to a sudden end and she begins to show an interest in Andy ("Money"). Even though they appear to reconcile, Jim's relationship with Karen and the possibility of him being promoted to a position at Corporate still keep them apart. Jim and Pam To be fair, though, Jim and Pam are not equally complicit in their terribleness. When there’s something unspoken, but it remains that — unspoken. When Sabre CEO Robert California places Jim and Pam on opposite sides of a list in which he names the people he thinks are winners and losers, Jim once again comforts her by deliberately allowing her to find a list he made himself where he elects Pam, Cece, and their new baby as winners, and everyone else as unimportant ("The List"). The secret is revealed accidentally, however, when Michael starts spreading out rumors about his employees. In season 5, Weight Loss premier Pam was at the Pratt Institute for her three-month course. Although Jim admits to Karen that he still has feelings for Pam ("The Return"), their relationship still seems solid and happy. © Complex Media, Inc. All Rights Reserved. Having realized that a wedding is too stressful and expensive, Jim and Pam decide to go to Ohio and elope. Jim and Pam's relationship apparently caught the attention of the documentary crew from the very first moments, as their constant joking and quick exchanges hinted that they both had deeper feelings for each other. Pam eventually decides to call off the wedding and is seen clearly missing Jim's presence in the office, while maintaining that she broke off her engagement for various reasons ("Gay Witch Hunt"). At the beginning of the series, Jim is single while Pam has been engaged to warehouse employee Roy for 3 years and has yet to set a date for the wedding. She reads it and understands once and for all how important she is to him ("A.A.R.M."). Pam, distraught over this, gets back together with Roy, who had been trying to win her back since their break-up ("Phyllis' Wedding"), which leaves Jim clearly uncomfortable. While Jim and Pam had originally decided that it would be impractical for Jim to take part in the business, Jim eventually decides to do so anyway without telling Pam ("New Guys"). Jim, understanding this, chose to apologize and it was forgotten ("The Fight"). Pam starts to worry that Jim might eventually resent her for forcing him to quit his dream job and that she might not be enough for him. Although Pam states that she and Jim are just friends, she seems bothered by the prospect of Jim dating Katy, a purse saleswoman ("Hot Girl"). Jim and Pam eventually tell the office of their pregnancy to spare Stanley from having his extra-marital affair revealed. It is confirmed that Pam is 4 months pregnant, although they have yet to tell their co-workers. Their relationship is eventually outed to the rest of the office after Toby (who had a crush on Pam) sends out a memo on PDA after witnessing Pam kiss Jim on the cheek in the break room ("Dunder Mifflin Infinity"). Jim, however, seems unhappy at the prospect of a calm and uneventful life. but, after giving Michael advice on how to get to Holly and realizing that he and Pam had come such a long way since they first met, as well as the importance of their workplace in their relationship, he decides to propose during Toby's going away party. Having felt that the moment was no longer appropriate, Jim doesn't propose, leaving Pam (who already suspected that Jim would propose that night) visibly disappointed ("Goodbye, Toby"). After the ceremony, Jim reveals that he bought the boat tickets as an alternate plan the day he saw the video, but that the church itself was an alternate plan since what he really wanted was to have married Pam "a long, long time ago. ... During which company event do Jim and Pam share their first kiss? When Jim and Pam prank Dwight together. The relationship in the first season can be seen in the end of the episode Diversity Day, when Pam falls asleep on Jim's shoulder, and their respective reactions shine light on the situation. While Pam is excited about rekindling their friendship, Jim is still unsure of how he feels about her and has started a relationship with Stamford co-worker Karen, who also transferred to Scranton, which causes their reunion to be rather disappointing to Pam. In a talking head, Jim reveals that after Toby's party he and Pam talked and decided they would rather not get engaged yet since Pam would be spending the summer in New York studying graphic design at the Pratt Institute and they both didn't want to spend the first few months of their engagement apart. Jim and Pam seem both quite happy, but deny the allegations that they are dating. Upon hearing of what happened after their discussion ("Couples Discount"), Jim is worried because he realizes this is the same pattern that led Pam away from Roy and into his arms, and they decide to make an effort to communicate more by going to couples counseling ("Stairmageddon"). On their wedding day, Pam is upset because her pregnancy had prevented her from wearing the outfit she had chosen and because her mother couldn't stop talking about her failed marriage, and nearly reaches a breaking point when her veil gets caught in a doorway and rips. You know that Jim must have had a pit deep in his stomach before asking Pam on a real date. Pam is exceptionally happy since this is the first year that she received a Dundie that wasn't for 'Longest Engagement', which is due to the fact that Jim convinced Michael to change it because he knew how much it upset Pam. Jim and Pam eventually move in together after Jim buys his parent's house. The proposal (“Weight Loss,” season 5) – After they’ve been dating for a year, Jim and Pam … It's clear from episode 2 (even earlier maybe) that Jim has feelings for Pam. Later, in the conference room, Pam falls asleep on Jim's shoulder. (Niagara), Over the course of the season, Pam's pregnancy advances and, after a moment of panic in which she admits to being scared of childbirth, she gives birth to their first child, Cecelia Halpert. Jim pines for Pam. No one forgets their first kiss. After Jim and Pam part from their kiss, Pam decides that she still has to honor her commitment to Roy and tells Jim that she plans to go through with the wedding. Our editorial content is not influenced by any commissions we receive. They still enjoy it, however, having already had their own private moment on the boat. Their love experienced ups and downs but they managed to make it through the season. Eh, sort of. The strain reaches an all-time high when one of Athlead's major investors decided to back down, leading Jim to misdirect his anger at Pam during a phone call. I like both very much and I want to say something nice… so I’ll talk about The Office instead. Pam is saddened by the fact that her father won't talk to her about his failing marriage but thinks he might open up to Jim. Nor would she ever forget that special evening they had spent together. ("The Merger"). Michael, Dwight, and Andy all want to hook up with guests at the wedding and Michael and Dwight meet twins. ". After Pam finishes watching the video, Jim finally gives her the note. This puts further strain on their marriage, as evidenced by their lack of comfort around each other and brief conversations. Jim and Pam’s relationship is one of the core elements of The Office.